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No wonder I'm still single. I live in a convent.
By Dina Dove of The Bagladys Guide to Elegant Living
I was joking with a friend the other day and said that to her in conversation. However, it is true. I've been divorced for 16 years and have no good prospects. Considering that, isn't it interesting that my house used to be the home of the nuns who taught at the Catholic school here in town. If you have been following my work, you know that I believe we play a huge part in our circumstances. Whether we are conscious of it or not, the universe is responding to us. So, that thought can lead to all kinds of fascinating introspection. Recently it has been about my house; why I bought one this big and why I don't seem to be able to sell it. See, I think God has an amazing sense of humor and I have a lot of fun watching him interact in my life. I think he is getting a big kick out of me and my house thoughts right now. Of course, when I bought this house, I certainly wasn't thinking about its past inhabitants. (In-habit-ants.) Ha Ha. Even that is funny. Of my own free will, I bought it about 5 years ago. It was my hide away as I wrote "The Baglady's Guide to Elegant Living." I could see the purpose in being alone then. I needed focus. Indeed, I have an "elegant life" in this big old Victorian. And since I live in a very small town, I do have the solitude of a nun when I am home. The parish priest lives next door and the church is next to the rectory. With Father Chris and I being the only people living on our block, it's practically holy! I'm counting Father and the church as holy. I added the "practically" to allow for me in the mix. But, you know what? I'm happy. In fact, I've been single so long now that I almost can't imagine sharing my space with another person full time. Oh there were years when I longed for a life partner. I had some long relationships that all ended with me spending months pining over the loss. But that is all ancient history now. Now I am at peace and truly satisfied with the life I have. There is an upside to being alone. Most people are so busy fretting over "being alone" that they don't see it. What it is, is an amazing sense of being able to be led, to listen to the quiet voice that can so easily remain unheard. It gives one the freedom to, on a whim, call someone that just pops into mind or to stop everything and go to the aid of a friend in need without worrying if I'll be upsetting the apple cart at home. I find great joys in the closer relationship with my best friend and Lord. I'm not Catholic, but I think I more fully understand the devotion that nuns must feel. I used to see their lives as a sacrifice but this life I have is a joy. And like many nuns, I live in a beautiful home and love God with all my heart. You never can tell. Someday my home might sell. A knight in shining armor might sweep me off my feet. In the meantime, here I am, following my heart wherever it leads me. And, I know it leads me home.
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Howdy Mam, I was the last to screen this intel of yours and rushed over to compliment you on it. I was smiling the entire time, and rarely am I still reading long after they allow me to select and post my rating. I love your style (both writing, and otherwise). Thank you for the quite pleasant read. And let me give you a bit of insight into how this Qondio thing is working out for you: I'm very seriously considering buying your book, even though it's not even close to my typical genre. Did you really just expand my mind? Good work (I think). -Mishio
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Mishio, Thank you so much for the kind words! If I helped you to expand your mind that is really wonderful. I might suggest this...if you are thinking of getting my book, you may want to do so through this special site
http://www.bagladylovesdressforsuccess.com
It is a project I'm working with right now where all the proceeds help the Dress For Success Charity. Just FYI Thanks again,
Dina
Hey there, Very good post. I agree with what the Mishio said. Keep it up! Dr. David Jernigan
Thank you for sharing and being present Dana; I too love solitude; am married and have a senior high school person at home. My solitude times are from 3am to 10am, daily and extra time from 1pm til 7pm; on days I do not have to leave home. I will also check out your book; also love bargains and creative ideas.
Hey Dina, It's me! I think this is one of the funniest posts you've ever written. Then what's really funny...it's true. You do live in what used to be a convent!!! LOL That is why I like all your posts. They are just about you and your take on your life. No wonder so many people are reading your book. Maybe they will see the joy and humor in their own life then. Anxiously waiting for your nexdt post.
Kathy
Your title pulled me in and your writing kept me here. Bravo! And bravo for you in finding happiness right where you are with what you have.
:) This brought a smile to my face and made me stop and think. Great writing, too!
I loved your post. I have been married now for 40 + years. I probably can't relate as well as a single person might, but I still enjoyed it. I even became a "Follower". I hope to see more of your writing soon.
As a newbie, I clicked All Time to see the best articles, and I was attracted by your title. And I enjoyed your article so much. So light, and easy and joyful. You have great style. Would read your other articles. More blessings...
I love your writing style. Well done.
Written with honesty and sincerity. Well done.
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